Women more willing to sacrifice kidneys

MUMBAI: Even as Mewavati Devangan, 59, was being wheeled in for surgery, her lips moved ceaselessly in prayer. It was her son’s life she prayed for. She hoped the kidney she was donating would save him. On regaining consciousness, she first asked if he was fine.

In most live kidney transplants, women are the donors. “A mother always comes forward to donate. For them, only their children matter. We also see wives coming forward to donate. Sisters are less frequent, as most of the time they have their own families who do not allow the donation,’’ said Dr Sailesh Raina, urological surgeon, Jaslok Hospital. He aded that 80% of kidney donors were women in transplants done at Jaslok last year.

Deepa Patel, of Malad, was on dialysis for eight years before receiving a kidney from her mother-in-law, Shantaben Patel, 68, who lives in Jogeshwari. “Deepa doesn’t have her parents. She has four siblings. Due to reasons of their own, they couldn’t donate. She kept refusing to take my kidney for eight years. But in August 2007, I finally gave her my kidney,’’ said Shantaben. Deepa said, “There might be hardly any mother-in-laws who would have done such a thing.’’

Around 300 live transplants were done in Mumbai last year. According to Narmada Kidney Foundation, an NGO, 143 of 186 donors were women in transplants done in Mumbai from November 2008 to November 2009. “The information is available from only a few hospitals. But even otherwise, the trend is the same for other cities in India,’’ said Jyoti Nagda, a counsellor with the foundation.